Cardinal Sin of Blogging
Saturday, July 31, 2010
I have committed a cardinal sin where blogging is concerned and that is I have not blogged consistently this summer. My dear friend and new grandmother Sharon is asking herself the same question I'm asking myself...is it time to stop blogging? There's a lot of life going on and there's the annoying nuisance of having your words taken out of context.
It's starting to make sense to me to have a blog that has a set purpose. That way you know your subject matter and you don't stray from it too often. My spiritual mother has a blog but it has everything to do with the content of her book The Making. My friend Marjorie has one and hers has to do with marketing. There was that one rant about Lebron James but that was warranted since she lives in Ohio.
I attend a couple of chat sessions on Twitter and one deals with tweeting for business and the other is all things concerning blogging. And the back and forth debate is just how much should one share on their blogs and what should one tweet? Are you blogging and tweeting for business or is it personal? I have a hard time drawing a line between my personal life, ministry, work and school and I think this came back to bite me in the rear end. My goals and ambitions are all out there for anyone to read.
The one exception to every blogging and tweeting rule I know is none other than Pastor Deanna. Her blog has a huge following and the subject matter varies and this works for her and I love her for what she shares. It's how I keep up with the Shrodes household and Celebration Church.
Well I've been quietly pondering all of this over the past couple of weeks and will give serious attention to this in prayer. Holy Spirit, what say ye? :))))))
The more I think about separating it all out the more I realize life is extremely complicated! I already knew that not every thought running through my mind needs to be shared. Every prayer request doesn't need public broadcasting and certainly every good thing, every blessing that happens in the house needs to be aired either. (I think I'll amen myself on that one.)
I've always been a proponent of transparency among leaders. Even my beloved has a blog (it hasn't been updated in months...but he has one...lol!) I do think blogging, tweeting is a good ministry tool because it gives people a chance to encounter you before actually encountering you. But you have to be really wise in doing so and I guess that's where I am right now. I'm asking what are people experiencing when they encounter me on the Internet? Professionally and in ministry. Some things I've resolved to forever take off my list of blog topics and believe it's Holy Spirit wisdom in doing so. I don't think not blogging or tweeting is the answer. I think it's about subject matter and finding a balance between personal and professional. It's definitely a matter of wisdom when it comes to making moves professionally. Man, did I learn this the hard way!
So, I will say, it's back to my prayer closet to sort all of this out and see what ingenious plan Holy Spirit doles out.
Take care everyone...
3 comments:
haha, you just gave yourself an amen. That's awesome :)
You had me worried there. I thought you were going to stop blogging and tweeting, in which case I would have had to travel to Texas and say Nooooooo!!!!
For you, the rules are different because ministry and religion ARE personal! I'm not sure the issue is what you want to reveal...I think what you might need to find peace about is what you want these tools to DO for you.
When I retooled what had been my crafting blog into a professional blog, I didn't know 100% what that meant at first. Now I know that I want two things out of my blog. I want to be able to converse with people about observations on this crazy marketing world, and I want to be able to (hopefully) help other people get grounded amidst all of the craziness. Those 2 things are my "true north," and other than my LBJ letter, I have stayed pretty true to it. That's easier for me though because that is strictly my professional life. I mean, I'm interested in it on a personal level, but there's no reason to get really personal with it unless I want to.
It seems like what you are really itching to do is use these tools for your ministry, and there's nothing wrong with that. However, if you want to weave your marketing information in, can I make a suggestion?
Blog about these battles like you just did here. You are so eloquent and funny, I think your blog could become a kind of "Sybill in marketing" resource for people. How do you create a voice when you find out that you are really 17 different people? Who's dominating today? Pastor Lisa, Marketing Lisa, Photographer Lisa, Mama Lisa? I think a lot of people would be able to relate to the minefield of trying to put all of your life into 140 characters for everyone to see. It's sheer craziness. :)
Stick with it. You're awesome.
I have so enjoyed getting to know you and yours here on this blog.
There is a sadness in my heart when I think about closing down something that has been one of the few constants in my life the last 4 or 5 years.
But...still praying where He would have me.
I look forward to see what God reveals to you.
And girl...you are so right when you state the simple truth....LIFE IS COMPLICATED! :)
Love you sister
Marjorie...thank you for your insight. I had to read it to my family and oh how they cracked up about "Sybil Marketing!"
I have more thoughts on this subject and will blog about them.
You have been a huge help and thank God for the day we found each other on Twitter. Still not quite sure how it happened but man am I grateful it did!
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